Believe you me, I have tried to find out how to avoid a fat, unattractive and uncomfortable pregnancy. No one likes a grouch. But even though I had all the reason in the world to feel grumpy and cranky and vent those frustrations on to my loving husband (who always has trouble getting things right xoxo), I felt in the back of my mind that feeling this down and outright ugly was not just unhealthy for me but also for my baby.