"Baby, sometimes, love just ain't enough." That's the name of a popular song sung by Patti Smith and Don Henley which used to be my favorite song. I first heard the song when I was in my early teens and really liked it without actually knowing how deep the meaning was. As I grew older I began to realize the true meaning of this song, it is so true that most of love just doesn't seem to be enough and so today this song is my all time favorite.

It's true that in a relationship love is a popular ingredient without which it is not possible to be together with somebody who is not related to you by blood. People with different personalities fall in love thinking that love would bind them and would keep them together because all that matters is only 'Love'. We give so much importance to love that we forget the other ingredients of a relationship like understanding, patience and selflessness. At times we even consider physical attraction and infatuation to be love and we rush to tie the knot making the biggest mistakes of our lives.

The one and the only biggest factor of any relationship is 'Compatibility'. Besides love it is the compatibility that matters the most. Just loving each other and having sex is not compatibility but having an understanding of each others feelings in all respects is compatibility. Incompatibility between couples is one of the major factors for High Divorce rate today. If incompatibility is happening in an arranged marriage it is understandable, but when couples, who had a love marriage, seek divorce it is purely because they were carelessness in choosing their life partner or their love was not enough to hold their relation together. Or was it love at all?

I want to ask those couples where the love is. Where has it gone? They say we need nothing but love rest nothing matters as long as we are together. But then what now? It only shows that love alone is not important and love just ain't enough but it needs understanding to maintain a relationship. With understanding comes respect, care, patience, tolerance etc which are the essential ingredients to create compatibility between you and your spouse. Therefore, add a pinch of understanding in your relationship for a long and loving marriage.

Marriage certainly brings on different challenges for different people but one must not shy away and should face them with all that one has. Let's say you love someone and get married to him but after marriage you discover that your partner suffers from ED, will your love go away. If yes then it was never love and if no then yes you are in love and because you are in love you would be concerned about your partner's health and problem and would look for a cure for him. The good part is you can find cure in terms of ED drugs, all you have to do is visit a doctor get him checked and if he gives a viagra or a cialis prescription then to buy cialis, you can even buy cialis online but if you are not sure of authenticity of source then it is better to order cialis from your known local and trusted store. But keep in mind that your online Cialis will do you no wonder nor will the love keep your marriage intact if you forget to put the most important ingredient of understanding in it. So, remembering that sometimes love just ain't enough, add some understanding and realize the true meaning of love.

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