You don't have to be frustrated and unhappy with your sex life. If you are it may be because you are making the same mistakes again and again. Correcting these sexual mistakes should help you have a more happy and fulfilling sex life.

1. Sex on the 1st date. If you make this sexual mistake, you will only be seen as someone to have sex with. If that is all you want from the relationship, that is fine. If you are wanting more, don't make this mistake. I don't care what men say, when you have sex on the first date you are seen differently.

2. Not being assertive in bed. This sexual mistake is very easy to correct. Speak up. Tell him what you want, how you want it and where. Too many women don't say anything, hoping he will notice. He wont.

Also part of being assertive is being more active in bed. Don't just lay there. Men hate that. Get on top, get in front and kiss him all over. The more you are into it, the more he will be into it. Most men want to see you have a good time, if for no other reason than there own ego.

3. Boring. This sexual mistake could really cost you. The same old way gets old after a while. Don't wait for him to change things. Take the lead and make the change. You don't have to play "nurse" to be exciting.

Rent movies, read books or ask friends. Keep your sex life new and exciting. This will help you because it gets boring for women as well as for men. Don't wait on the guy to change things. Make the change and get the reward.

4. The biggest mistake is picking the wrong guy for what you want. Don't pick some conservative guy if you are looking for a wild time in bed. Also, don't pick Casanova if you a looking for a committed relationship. Too many women pick men hoping they will change. He wont. He likes being the way he is. Know what you want and be patient enough to wait for it.

You can have the happy rewarding sex life you want. If you stop making those sexual mistakes, you will find more love and peace than you thought was possible. Not only that, but you will move closer to finding the just the guy for you.

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