The cheap or broke guy should stay out of the dating game. He is interfering with the romantic aspirations of women by wasting their time. Some women that have run into those types have quit the dating game and will not return. The cheap guy will not offer a woman a drink after dancing with her all evening. He will only go "Dutch Treat" on a date. Having a good time to him means a cheap evening out. The broke guy is even worse. He doesn't even have bus fare and long walks are his only recreation. If you date him be ready for a long walk. If you get hungry the check will have to be picked up by you. Both types are a woman's nightmare.

The married guy that lies about his status to a woman can really hurt her, more so if she was intimate with him. Some women have discovered that their lover is a married man after becoming pregnant. But if the married guy is truthful he can successfully date single women. If he is a big spender, and also good looking many women will accept him as a date despite his marital status. A cheating couple is the perfect match. Their relationship is based on honesty and practicality. If the guy also takes her out nicely she will never give him up.

Many of the singles bars in an attempt to keep out cheap or broke guys have raised their admission price to twenty five dollars. That is a sure way of eliminating deadbeats. Any guy a woman would meet in a bar with a high admissions policy could afford to date her. Even if the guy was married at least he wouldn't be cheap or broke. Some singles bars will only allow members in who are certified as single. The perfect way to eliminate undesirable men is by going on a cruise. A woman can relax knowing any guy she meets is an eligible date. The big problem with meeting men on a cruise is that women outnumber men two to one.

Women that have lost their youthful looks have a difficult time in the dating game. Men are very youth oriented and pay little attention to a woman that is less than attractive. Before an aged woman is ready to give up she makes many desperate attempts at finding a guy. Rarely is she successful. But women unless they are broke can get along without men. There are a lot of things for a woman to do besides dating. Community centers have many interesting programs and she is sure to find one that interests her. There are ladies organizations that will keep her occupied with bus trips to theatres or historical sights. She will find more friends than she ever had.

The winners in the dating game are attractive women and financially secure men. The rich and beautiful are like honey to bees and are smothered with admirers. They have a tremendous advantage and use it to have a great time. The ordinary dater is an outsider in the dating game and fantasizes about becoming an insider but this rarely happens. They have to struggle to find a suitable partner. Many find it to be almost impossible and wisely give up a dating game reserved for only a few fortunate men and women.

A woman that has a good job does not need a man. She has been brainwashed to think that he has to be an essential part of her life. There are many women that are perfectly happy without the annoyance of a male partner. She is built in a way that she can pleasure herself perfectly and doesn't need him to help her. If she likes good conversation there are many women available to be her friends and talk with her. Women have more in common with each other then they do with men. There is no group as content as a circle of women chatting. If a man enters that group he will be ignored and many times chased away.

Men are genetically programmed to have as much sexual activity as possible. They are constantly on the hunt for an available female. That is their nature and only a naïve woman would deny it. They will lie, cheat and some will assault a woman to be sexually satisfied. An honest man will be truthful and tell a woman what is on his mind, and hope that she will grant him his wish. Men have struggled to have a choice woman in their bedroom. Some have taken two jobs to keep her there. Many clever women have recognized mans insatiable sexual need, and have manipulated him for personal gain. Much of the western world's wealth is falling into women's hands because of mans vulnerability.

The perfect world for men would be the availability of an unlimited amount of sexual opportunity. Man has been recognized as a sex crazed animal that is not much different than lower forms in nature. There is no reason why he should not be accommodated. The only logical way to do this would be to have millions of women ready to serve him. Those women would have to be recruited from those that have no other way of supporting themselves. The costs of making love to these women would have to be low enough so that they could be affordable. The best way this can be done is by having the government subsidizing the program. The ideal price for a customer would be three dollars. Every guy would be a winner in this new world order. The government would be responsible for keeping any disease out of the program. This can be done by giving monthly examinations to the women.

The perfect world for women is right here. The ordinary woman can learn how to support herself without having a sex crazed man do it for her. But there are still women that refuse to work and support themselves. The perfect world would put them to work helping create a satisfied mankind. melviiin1@verizon.net

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