Has it been a while since you have given your man a night to remember?

There is always a lot of material written about girls - what do girls want? How to please your girl? What girls find boring in the bedroom? Well, what about your man? Let's think about him and give him a night to remember.....

Here is a scenario you might like to try....

Pick a night that you both have free. You are in charge of this night. Firstly, make a reservation at his favourite restaurant and also reserve a hotel room.

On the night that you have picked, when he gets home from work you are not to be there. Instead you leave notes for him with instructions to follow. Men love being dominated, and this is your night to dominate him.

The first note

The first note is on the kitchen table and it says "go to the bedroom, there is a surprise waiting for you".

The second note

When he gets to the bedroom you have left another note on the bed on top of his favourite shirt saying "have a shower and put this on".

The third note

Then when he gets into the bathroom there leave another note on his towel saying "don't forget to put this on after your shower with an arrow pointing to his aftershave, and meet me here....(a bar that you both like.) at 7pm xox"

In the meantime you have glammed-up for the occasion, you are wearing a dress or skirt that he loves you in and your hair is done in his favourite style, straightened, up in a pony tail, what ever he finds sexy. Make up and perfume on, and you are now waiting for him at the bar. Position yourself so he doesn't see you when he first comes in. He comes...

Naturally he is going to look for you when he enters the bar, and if he doesn't see you straight away he will go and get a drink. This is when you can slide up beside him and say "care to buy a lady a drink?" Alternatively you can be waiting at the bar so he sees you when he first walks in. He won't be able to wipe the smile off his face as you will be looking gorgeous and he will be wondering what you have in store for him.

At the bar

You both sit at the bar, or at a table and have a couple of drinks and enjoying each other's company. Next you say we are going for dinner. Once you get to dinner you do the ordering, completely taking charge of the situation. You order for the both of you, and you order wine or a drink of your choice to accompany it. You have ordered something not too heavy so you don't get too full and lose the momentum for sex. All throughout dinner you are slipping hints about what you have in store for him.

After dinner this is when you take him to the hotel room and you have your array of sex toys, massage oils, handcuffs and whatever gear you would like to tantalize him with spread out on the bed. You tell him to get into the bathroom and you are going to start the night with a bath.

At the hotel

By this stage he is thoroughly impressed at the effort you have gone to and is completely aware that you are in control. After your bath tie him up and do as you please, there is no way he is going to say no. Or if role playing is his fetish, think up a scenario that you are to act out and that he will love.

This night is all about having fun and pampering your man. And, after all the effort that you have gone to there is no way he is not going to please you!

If this night doesn't put you in the good book then there is something wrong!

About the Author

Written by Suzie Harris, an expert on all things that happen in the bedroom, particularly love, sex toys and romance. She is the chief contributor to The Lazy Stud http://www.thelazystud.com.au