Kissing is really an art. The approach towards a kiss has to be different according to the level of relationship and the wavelength you share with the girl.

Kissing your crush: There is an intense attraction for a person you don't know that well. The person is not in a mature relationship but there is a scent of a relationship brewing between the two of you. Begin your kisses with tender closed mouth pecks and then proceed to kisses which involve the mouth to be partly opened. Do not involve the tongue. Preferably, you should not kiss on the lips at this stage. You may kiss on the cheeks and forehead area and slowly move towards the area around the lips before closing on the lips. When you are kissing the girl on her lips, ensure that the arms are circling her and the kisses are soft and not heavy. Do not kiss too long, because you should not come across as someone coming strongly on her. A lot many potential relationships have fizzled out or lost their charm before the individuals got to know each other thoroughly. Your crush should not feel that she was used or feel guilty about going ahead without losing control of herself. That is why it is ideal to stop the kiss at the right time before things get too hot. In a nutshell, try to hold hands and discover the feeling instead of just kissing and leaving in a huff. Walk along with your crush and talk about different joys and things before taking leave.

Kisssing a friend: Not matter how much your heart says 'kiss the girl,' you know that she is your friend and you are caught in a web of confusion. Everything depends on the chemistry you share with the girl. An innocent peck on the cheek of a woman will not arouse any eyebrows. Keep your kisses closemouthed and flirty. Give your girl a hug after the kiss is over, as it confirms the attachment and friendliness you share with her. As the relationship proceeds and as both see a sense of love and security in each other, there will automatically be a change in the intensity of kisses.

Love kiss-Kissing your date Say you are not dating her for the first time and you have kissed her before. She is not a crush, she is your lover. When you kiss, hold her quite close. Cuddle her in your arms as you kiss her. Hold her hips or stroke her hair as you kiss. You can choose the French kiss or if she is not ready for it, go for the Quebec kiss. Before you get irritated, let me tell you that it is a smaller, drier version of French kissing. It has minimal amount of tongue involved in the kissing. Complete the kiss by giving a gentle peck on the forehead or the nose. Talk to your lady after the kiss. Tell her how beautiful the kiss and how it made you feel. If you are a girl, hold his hand and let him know how secure you feel in his presence. In fact, this is not even needed because for women, this is a natural thing to feel.

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