I'm always asked, what do I need to do after break up while I'm still in love with ex boyfriend? My reaction has always been this, what do you need to do? I can see that this is not the answer you've imagined but it's odd that a guy you used to make love to, the one you sacrificed your love, turns out offending you the most. As they say, 'love is pain' and that's whats causes it dangerous.

It's a piece of cake to say love hurts when you are not in pain but when you are in love with a guy who care for you it's like been treated like a step child. Can you imagine all that tenderness... may be those Asters flowers... all that 'I care for you'... those chocolates and love stories, disappeared, that's terrible to be told isn't it?

What is the best thing to do?