I'm constantly asked, what can I do after break up while I'm still in love with him? My answer has always been this, how do you wish to feel? I acknowledge that this is not the reply you've expected but it's bizarre that someone you used to make love to, the one you handed your life, turns out hurting you the most. As they say, 'love is pain' and that's whats gets it dangerous.

It's a piece of cake to say love is pain when you aren't in pain but when you are in an intimate relationship with a person who care for you it's like been in hell. Can you imagine all that caressing... may be those Limes flowers... all that 'I love you'... those candies and laugh, lost in a thin air, that's uneasy to swallow isn't it?

What is the best thing to do?