I'm constantly asked, what should I do after breakup when I'm infatuated by him? My solution has always been this, how do you wish to feel? I know that this is not the answer you've anticipated for but it's strange that a man you used to dear so much, the one you dedicated your soul, turns out hurting you the most. As they say, 'love is hurting' and that's whats causes it dangerous.

It's obviously easy to say love is pain when you are not in trouble but when you are in an intimate relationship with someone who abuses you it's like been treated like a step child. Can you remember all that tenderness... may be those Daffodilss flowers... all that 'I love you'... those candies and romance, disappeared, that's lousy isn't it?

How do you act in this standing?