I'm constantly asked, what should I do after breakup although I'm still hot and heavy for a guy? My response has always been this, what do you want to do? I acknowledge that this is not the answer you've anticipated for but it's odd that a person you used to dear so much, the one you committed everything, turns out hurting you the most. As they say, 'It is impossible to love and be smart' even if it's good someday you'll pay for it.

It is easy to say love is pain when you aren't in pain but when you are in a relationship with someone who can't love you back it's like been treated like nothing. Can you remember all that tenderness... may be those Violets flowers... all that 'I you'... those chocolates and romance, disappeared, that's intense isn't it?

How do you act in this position?