I'm always asked, what can I do after breakup even if I'm still crazy about my ex? My answer has always been this, how do you want to feel? I acknowledge that this is not the solution you've presumed but it's weird that a man you used to dear so much, the one you devoted everything, turns out offending you the most. As they say, 'It is unthinkable to love and be smart' even if it's good someday you'll pay for it.

It's a piece of cake to say love hurts when you aren't hurting but when you are in an intimate relationship with a boyfriend who abuses you it's like been in hell. Can you remember all that touch... may be those Ginsengs flowers... all that 'I love you'... those candles and flirting, is dried up, that's irritating isn't it?

Now you may ask what is better for you?