I'm daily asked, what should I do after break up while I'm still in love with him? My reply has always been this, how do you wish to feel? I understand that this is not the solution you've looked for but it's strange that someone you used to dear so much, the one you gave away all you had, turns out hurting you the most. As they say, 'love is hurting' you must pay for it.

It's obviously easy to say love is pain when you are not in trouble but when you are in an intimate relationship with someone who can't love you back it's like been treated like nothing. Can you imagine all that touch... may be those Dahlias flowers... all that 'I you'... those candies and charm, disappeared, that's awful isn't it?

What important thing to do?