I'm constantly asked, what can I do after break up whilst I'm still hot and heavy for ex boyfriend? My response has always been this, what do you need to do? I recognize that this is not the reply you've expected but it's odd that a man you used to dear so much, the one you dedicated your love, turns out offending you the most. As they say, 'It is impossible to love and be smart' even if it's good someday you'll pay for it.

It's a piece of cake to say love is pain when you are not hurting but when you are in an intimate relationship with a man who can't love you back it's like been treated like nothing. Can you remember all that tenderness... may be those Poppys flowers... all that 'I care for you'... those chocolates and fantacies, gone in a thin air, that's tough isn't it?

How do you act in this condition?