I'm daily asked, what possibly can I do after breakup when I still have a crush on ex boyfriend? My answer has always been this, what do you wish to do? I know that this is not the solution you've looked for but it's odd that a man you used to care for, the one you sacrificed everything, turns out hurting you the most. As they say, 'love is painful' which gets us all confused sometime.

It is easy to say love hurts when you aren't hurting but when you are in love with a boyfriend who isn't to you it's like been treated like a step child. Can you remember all that tenderness... may be those Licorices flowers... all that 'I care for you'... those candies and fantacies, disappeared, that's tough isn't it?

How do you act in this situation?