Let's go into 'relationship' a little deeper.
Relationship means the way we associate with the other.
Why do we do so?
Why do we set a way to associate with one, and another with the other?
Does it not make our interaction with them un-spontaneous and, hence, a mechanical one?
Social protocol makes it necessary.
But then the same goes to our head too!
We 'see' the other as a relationship and not as a person independent of us.
We start depending.
Our protocol starts ruling our interaction.
Interaction goes repetitive, base and dull losing all its luster and vibrancy.
Why do I take my wife as my wife and not as a person independent of me....unattached to me?
If she is attached, how will I get attracted to her?
We are already attached in our heads! Somehow I must forget she is my wife.
Very easy!
She should not act as my wife!
Will she ignore the social protocol then?
Technically not, but psychologically yes.
Is it possible?
Yes, but only if we end our psychology.
We end our emotions.
What then remains is pure passion.
No prejudices, no greed, no fear, no compromises, no impositions, no expectations......no nothing!
And then we meet like two new persons meet.
May be everyday, may be not!
No guarantee, no safety, no security - only an absolute insecurity!
And then we meet like two passions meet, and the joy takes its birth!
What we discover then, is that our third eye in our body has already gone opened; and we have started living every single moment in our life as well as in our relationship, to its richest and most vibrant fullness!
About the Author
By qualification, G B Singh is an electronics engineer, passionate to change the quality of life on earth.
Contact him at http://www.ThirdEyeHealth.com for instant vision correction, and at http://www.LifeSip.com for becoming a volunteer leader.
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