A well-trained graphologist (handwriting analyst) can
certainly identify personality strengths, challenges, and
potential relationship problems, but he/she won't tell you
if you should marry or not. That decision is up to you.
Before committing to a life together (as with traditional
marriage), two people would help themselves by also
seriously considering who they really are (aside from all
societal programming and conditioning), why they are here
on earth, and what it is that their higher-selves (souls) have
chosen to experience. Graphology, meditation, and regression
therapy are effective ways to know the who and comprehensive
astrology and numerology open the door to the what and why.
It's rare for modern-day couples to give much thought
to themselves and their relationships before committing,
legally or otherwise. It's much more common to leap before
looking in matters of the heart and we see this as "by design"
so that we all put ourselves in the positions necessary to fulfill
spiritual contracts, many of which include difficulties.
For those interested in and possibly fated for a more cautious
approach, graphology (handwriting analysis) offers tremendous
personality and relationship insight.
Comprehensive numerology and astrology are good for
personality analysis, but our findings indicate that graphology
offers a deeper look into subconscious personality.
A well-trained graphologist can indicate if a person is emotionally
stable or volatile, honest or insincere, enthusiastic or depressed,
in good health or unwell, intellectually sharp or slow-witted,
artistic or analytical, sedentary or physically active, closed or
open-minded, extroverted or introverted, tense or relaxed,
immature or mature, and much more.
Some of the more important areas of interest a graphologist
examines in relation to romantic compatibility are as
follows: emotional maturity, integrity, honesty, sincerity,
need for variety, level of interest in sex, communication
skills (including listening skills), level of self-esteem,
critical analysis/sense of discernment (effectiveness in
identifying and understanding personality relationship
issues), acquisitiveness (desire for money and material
things), and financial extravagance/irresponsibility.
Since sex and money seem to be the root of many couple's
problems, most certified graphologists apply complex
protocols to efficiently identify core issues. For example,
financial issues are frequently linked with some of the
following graphologically discernable personality traits:
impulsiveness, lack of discipline, lack of control, extreme
sensuousness, and distorted generosity.
Furthermore, graphologists consider the following traits
to be some of the more destructive common red flags that
challenge personal relationships: argumentativeness,
domineering/controlling disposition, evasiveness, intolerance,
vanity, withdrawal, reticence, drug and alcohol problems,
fear of intimacy, denial, self-deception, and rationalization.
Note that graphology assesses conscious and subconscious
character, so the graphologist is able to outline the real,
prevailing personality; the one that shows up while under
stress, not only the one displayed when on one's best behavior.
A comprehensive handwriting analysis can indicate potential
for future behavior, but in most cases, for instance, not that
your mate is cheating right now. Still, it is possible to get a
very good idea whether or not the subject is cheating if that
person writes a reasonable sample (at least ¾ of a page) of
spontaneous handwriting, and writes specifically about his/her
faithfulness/sincerity and his/her current relationship/partner.
If he/she is in fact cheating, indications of integrity issues/
insincerity would likely show up in the analysis.
When considering a long term commitment and/or marriage,
it's also important to acknowledge that permanence does not
exist when it comes to relationships here on Earth. All bonds
must dissolve at some point and fate guarantees (as can be
identified and tracked through comprehensive numerology and
astrology) whether a connection is to last only a day, endure a
lifetime, or some period of time in between. Almost everyone
wants an ideal match with which to spend the rest of his/her life.
Knowing this while accepting that not all relationships are meant
to be long-term can help minimize disappointment and heartache.
We would advise anyone to follow their heart, yet squarely face the
truth that higher-self (soul) plans are frequently in contrast with
ego-self (conscious personality) plans. Becoming aware of and
aligning yourself with your true self and highest path pay deep
dividends in the long run, although it's not easy to give up many
of those ego-self demands and expectations.
Our easy to use (even without a certified graphologist designation)
Graphology Resource Keys and Graphology Trait-Based Guide
offer tremendous personality and compatibility insight.
Copyright © 2007 Scott Petullo, Stephen Petullo
About the Author
Scott Petullo and Stephen Petullo are identical twins and have been exploring metaphysics since the early 1980's. Aside from being experts in their respective fields of delineation, prediction, personal fate, love life, and past life regression, they are both natural psychics and mediums. They also offer self-awareness and personal growth products. http://www.mystictwins.com http://www.holisticmakeover.com
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