Unfortunately, women and men find the signs all the time. There might be unexplained charges on your wife or husband's credit cards, strange amounts of money withdrawn from the checking account or money taken from the savings account. There are definite signs that pinpoint cheating behaviors, and steps that you can take to find out the truth Trust is important in any relationship. However, that trust can be compromised when one partner suspects the other partner is up to no good. Maybe you suspect an affair something you were unaware of. In many cases, the first partner is blissfully unaware that something is going on until they find a mysterious phone number on their partner’s cell phone or in their pocket or wallet. In this situation, the partner may decide to take matters into their own hands and conduct their own investigation…. If properly done this can help.