Are there any benefits of enjoying threesome once in a while? Oh YES there are! Let's take a look at the three major benefits of experiencing a more open sex life:
1. You can't cheat and the need to cheat diminishes
2. Your chances of remaining in a quality relationship drastically improve
3. You make more effort to stay physically in shape
You can't cheat and the need to cheat diminishes
Most monogamous couples choose to be monogamist not because they want to, but because they don't know any better. Many of them get married with the best of their intentions to remain faithful, however, after a few years of being together the "opportunity" arises and suddenly they "cheat" on their wife or husband. Why do you think people cheat? Because they're looking for something that they can't find anymore in their steady partners: variety.
The thought to have sex with only one person for the rest of our lives scares the hell out of most of people; especially guys! Whether we like to admit it or not; the truth is that traditional couples "cheat" all the time. If we're good enough at hiding our "affairs," the secret goes with us to the grave. Some "cheaters" however are caught in the act. Unfortunately cheating on your partner; caught or not, destroys that precious bond that you have together.
The moment you cheat, you have subconsciously damaged the relationship. Interesting enough amongst sexually liberated couples "cheating" is nearly non-existing. Why? Because they "play" together so they can have the best of both worlds: familiarity and variety. Playing brings them together, not apart as in "cheating."
Your chances of remaining in a quality relationship drastically improve
Because you both get to play with other people your relationship gives you the best of both worlds: variety and familiarity. This gives you a huge advantage to keeping a long-lasting quality relationship over most monogamous couples.
You make more effort to stay physically in shape
This benefit was already discussed chapter 6 but it's important to mention it again: because you're hunting for threesome candidate (s) you remain in the "Dating Scene." Most traditional couples end the honey moon phase in their relationship retty early and reality settles in. They're living together, working hard, start a family, trying to keep up with their social and family life. This seriously affects their sex life; familiarity sinks in and before they know it they put on weight and stop taking care of their physical appearance... Having a sexually open, responsible non-monogamist relationship with your partner keeps you young. Flirting raises your self-esteem and gives you an incentive to remain fit and attractive. "Playing Couples," as they are known in the swinging scene, have a tendency to take care of their physical appearance. They want to be attractive not only for themselves but also for others.
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