I'm normaly asked, what should I do after break up despite the fact that I'm still hot and heavy for him? My solution has always been this, what do you need to do? I 'm aware that this is not the solution you've presumed but it's strange that a guy you used to care for, the one you gave away your life, turns out hurting you the most. As they say, 'love is painful' and that's whats makes it dangerous.

It's a piece of cake to say love is pain when you are not in pain but when you are in an intimate relationship with a boyfriend who doesn't spend some serious time with you it's like been treated like nothing. Can you imagine all that tenderness... may be those Dandelions flowers... all that 'I care for you'... those candles and romance, gone in a thin air, that's shitty experience isn't it?

How do you act in this case?