I'm always asked, what can I do after breakup whilst I'm still in love with ex boyfriend? My response has always been this, what do you want to do? I recognize that this is not the answer you've looked for but it's weird that a person you used to make love to, the one you rendered your love, turns out offending you the most. As they say, 'It is impossible to love and be wise' you must pay for it.

It is easy to say love hurts when you aren't hurting but when you are in love with a man who doesn't spend some quality time with you it's like been in hell. Can you imagine all that caressing... may be those Bulbss flowers... all that 'I care for you'... those chocolates and butterflies, went down the drain, that's worthless isn't it?

How do you act in this situation?