I'm normaly asked, what can I do after break up although I still have a crush on a guy? My answer has always been this, how do you need to feel? I know that this is not the answer you've looked for but it's strange that a guy you used to dear so much, the one you handed everything, turns out offending you the most. As they say, 'It is impossible to love and be smart' even if it's good someday you'll pay for it.

You have no problem to say love is pain when you are not in pain but when you are in love with someone who doesn't have feelings for you it's like been in hell. Can you imagine all that tenderness... may be those Chrysanthemums flowers... all that 'I care for you'... those chocolates and laugh, is now vanished, that's irritating isn't it?

Now you may ask what is best for you?