I'm normaly asked, what must I do after breakup while I still have a crush on my ex? My solution has always been this, what do you wish to do? I recognize that this is not the solution you've predicted but it's strange that someone you used to make love to, the one you handed your love, turns out offending you the most. As they say, 'love is pain' but you don't want to get injured.

You have no problem to say love is pain when you aren't hurting but when you are in love with a boyfriend who doesn't spend some serious time with you it's like been treated like nothing. Can you imagine all that touch... may be those Irises flowers... all that 'I love you'... those candles and flirting, went down the drain, that's awful isn't it?

What important thing to do?