As you know you cannot lift up a stick without lifting up the other end at the same time. If you keep doing the same thing over and over again, you will always get the same results. If you like your results, then all is fine and we dont need this article. If not then read on. In order to get different results you have to become a different person . The first thing you need to do is raise your self esteem. You are a wonderful person and you need to acknowledge that to yourself.